While we have made some good progress in June, it saddens me that the progress would have been even MORE, if we hadn’t of gone over budget during the month. Another “set back” was when we lowered our car insurance by switching to Progressive. We paid our 6 month premium up front, which came out of our “debt savings” category (see!?! I knew it would be raided if left around!)

I have now made a credit card payment with the full “debt savings” amount left, so that we can’t use it as a safety net any longer. Even though I made that payment on July 1st, I’m counting it towards June, since that is when it was saved up.

JUST THE CREDIT CARDS PLEASE!

At the beginning of June, we had $25,600 in credit card debt.

In June:

we paid $1,365 paid on our credit cards,
we SAVED $1,319 and let it in our high yield checking collecting interest,
we EARNED $31 in interest for a total of $1350, which has now been paid to credit card debt,
we paid no interest,
for a total of $22,885 credit card debt remaining.

We have paid almost 10 thousand dollars

We have paid down 29.49% of our credit card debt!

Yes! I'm trying to be gung ho here! Hip hip hurrah! Or something!

THE ENTIRE PICTURE

We lowered our debt by $4,874 for a total of $86.5K.

I have some updates about all our “TROUBLES!” with some not so good news.. I have postponed writing about it because at first I was too depressed. Now I’m not depressed anymore, in fact, I’ve turned a corner and am feeling pretty good! But I think we’re looking at a major shift in our goals and that is going to mean a shift in where this blog is going as well. I’ll update again soon!

Promise!

PROGRESSIVE!

Our auto insurance at USAA was running us at about $1250/6 months.

I did an online quote at Progressive and they quoted me $680 (this is the pay the whole premium up front price).

When I was filling out the application, I really didn’t know the dates of the offenses in our driving record. I didn’t think it really mattered, since I knew that they checked everything anyway, so I guesstimated these offenses:

ME:
sept 2006 - careless/improper driving

oct 2006 - at fault accident

MR.99K:

jan 2006 - license or credentials violation
– I couldn’t remember when exactly he got pulled over for not having his new registration sticker over, so I really stabbed in the dark on this one.

I submitted the application and the rate changed to $830. Still quite a bit of savings from USAA, so I went ahead, paid the premium, and waited.

I was still afraid that the premium would change, but a few days later, they sent me a bunch of online documents (declarations, policy, notices, etc.) I looked all over but could not see any sign of a change in the premium, which made me happy. I started opening up all the documents and looking through them when I found our driving history, a combination of what I had entered, and what they had gotten off of the various insurance reporting reports.

Progressive uses driving and claims history to determine your premium. Driving and claims history may include events such as motor vehicle violations, at-fault accidents, not-at-fault accidents and comprehensive claims. We obtain driving and claims history from one or more of the following sources:

• Your application (APP)
• Progressive claims history
• Motor Vehicle Reports - provided by state agencies (MVR)
• Comprehensive Loss Underwriting Exchange - provided by ChoicePoint, Inc (CLUE)

Here is the driving history they listed:

Now, are you seeing what I am seeing? Some of these, the only “source” for them, is my own application! So basically, they’re taking me at my word.

I put this aside for the moment, and gave USAA a call to see if they could match our new rate.

They couldn’t. So, I asked them what they have on file for our driving record as. They had nothing at all for Mr. 99k, and only items #1 and #3 for me.

I decided to call Progressive. I explained to the nice man that when I was filling out the application, I was pretty much guessing at the dates, and therefore, I was pretty sure that #1 and #2 on my history were actually the same event. I also explained that while I knew Mr. 99k had a ticket for not having the registration in the car, it might have been further in the past than 2006 and that USAA had no record of it.

He very nicely removed both those items and informed me that our premium would be lowered to $633!!! We will be getting a $200 refund on our card for the difference.

Out of curiosity, I asked him what would have happened if I HADN’T called. Would these (mythical! fictitious!) violations have become part of my insurance records, to hound me until they fall off? He confirmed that yes, they would have.

Zounds! People, don’t be like I was, assuming that they’ll correct whatever violations you enter after they check your report. Not only are you missing out on money, you may be ADDING to your driving history in the process.

The next time I shop around for insurance, I am not going to enter anything into the driving history. I’ll just let them pull it up on their own and adjust the rate accordingly. That way, I know I’m not inadvertantly adding violations to my insurance record!

For the record, I think the drastic lowering of our rate is because of the car my husband drives. It’s… how shall we say… sporty. Speedy sporty. Complete with massive spoiler. the USAA guy and I guessed that perhaps progressive isn’t clued into the fact that this speedster isn’t just your run of the mill 4-door sedan. With progressive, my nearly 10-year old SUV had a higher premium than his 2006 turbo charged bullet! USAA probably has better actuary numbers than progressive, giving the true cost of insuring this car, so until progressive’s numbers catch up, we are in LUCK! It’s ironic though, because even if the numbers on this car show that it has more claims over time… my husband has never been in an accident and has maybe.. MAYBE gotten ONE speeding ticket in his life. (That I should be so lucky.)

-99k

We’ve got trouble! Right here in River City! Trouble with a capital “T”, and that rhymes with.. OK, I’ll stop already. NOT because I’d have to roll out 76 trombones, but because… I don’t remember any more of the words.

Trouble you say? What sort of trouble?

TROUBLE #1

Well, it’s a budget buster that is going to screw up everything. Not just everything THIS month, or even NEXT month, but for the rest of the year, perhaps even my entire plan to pay all this debt off by december of 2010.

This year, we took all our 1099s and K-1s and Int-Divs and W-2s and THX1138s and 402SUCKITs* and all the other tax forms we could find, shoved them in a file and marched them to a real live official CPA, who then did our taxes for us and broke the news that we owed. $3600 worth.

So here it is, the end of June, and I thought, “Hmm. Perhaps we should check our withholding to make sure we don’t have to go through that again, eh?”

So I gathered up our most recent paystubs, estimated what we’d pay in mortgage interest, property taxes, daycare costs, and heaven knows what else and sent them over to the previously mentioned CPA.

He called back later to give me the bad news. We need to withhold an extra $350 dollars each.

$350 x 4 paychecks a month = $1,400 LESS to work with in our budget each month.

We still need to firm up these numbers. I forgot some mortgage interest, dug up the points we paid on the re-fi and resent to the CPA. But even if it comes down, we definitely looking at at LEAST $1,000 less a month. Which is, ironically, the exact same amount we pledged to throw at our debt each month.

*Some tax forms described may in fact, be made up. They may also, be a nerdy George Lucas reference in there somewhere. I am sorry, I’m married to a geek.

TROUBLE #2

Mr. 99k noticed we had some water accumulating underneath our furnace/blower unit in the basement. Maybe it noticed that we had gotten a new heatpump and felt neglected. Or maybe it was all the gook stuck in the pipe trap that clogged it and caused it to spew water everywhere. Yes, you’re right, probably more of the latter than the former. $180 later, we have a new trap with a handy dandy brushee thingee to clean out the gook periodically. Yay. Did I mention we’re already over budget this month?

SEMI-TROUBLE #3

Our auto insurance is in the $1250/6 months range for a 1999 SUV, and a 2006 4-door sporty zippy go-really-fast car. I am continually annoyed at this number, especially since it went up for some mysterious reason last fall and all they could tell me was they redid the rates in our area. Since we’re now about 2 years away from our latest moving violations transgressions, I did a check on Progressive. The rate came out to about $830/6 months. Yay! I’m not quite counting our chickens before they’ve hatched yet, because I know they sometimes let you buy your policy and then check out everything about you (your credit score, your driving history, the super secret insurance files, the color of underwear you’re wearing, etc.) and change the rate on you. If it does give us a better deal, I’ll be so ecstatic. The status when I log in to my Progressive account is “policy is being processed,” So I’m in wait and see mode.

Assuming our premium doesn’t change, we’ll be saving money in the long run, HOWEVER, they like you to pay your entire premium up front. Which is $830 we don’t have. So if all this goes through fine, we’ll be taking some money out of emergency savings/debt savings to pay the upfront 6 month premium. Going forward, we’ll make a savings category in our budget for the next 6 month premium, but that doesn’t take away from the fact that we’ll be budget busted over this right now. I still think it’s a worthwhile move to make, however.

TROUBLE #4

I don’t know if you’ve heard, but the new 3rd generation i-phone comes out in just 14 SHORT DAYS.

Temptation! Thy name is I-PHONE!!

I’m not an apple-phile, but my husband kind of is. He’s wanted one of these things since they first came out. Unfortunately for him, we were still in a 2 year contract with Verizon (Apple has an exclusive contract with Cingular for the i-phone for I think another year). Back then, I was unimpressed. My husband also just HAD TO HAVE the new Treo 600w. Once he had it? It decided not to ring most of time. Who was the one who called him the most? Me. Six months later, I hate the thing because he never answered it, and he hated the thing because his wife kept hollering at him for not answering his phone. So, I’m sorry if I’m not terribly excited at the prospect for throwing another $600 at a new gadget that in my mind, we won’t even want in 6 months.

But that was THEN. This is NOW. And the IPHONE! Well, it’s so pretty and shiny! I wanted one too!

So when Apple had their big developer meeting a few weeks ago, I said to Mr. 99k, “If the new i-phone is $200 or under, I think we should get a couple!”

People! When these things FIRST came out the cheapest one was $600! Sure, they lowered it a few months later to $400, but I thought I was on pretty safe ground with a statement like that! I never DREAMED they’d actually come in at around $200 bucks! Right at the end of Steve Jobs’ keynote speech, he dropped the $199 bomb. I was ecstatic, and totally bummed at the same time. I backpedaled with Mr. 99k, but honestly, I totally want an i-phone. Would THAT be the fiscally responsible thing to do? Hell to the no. Do I still want one? Hell to the YES!

Well, I WAS on the fence, leaning toward NOT getting some (because even if we cough up the $400 for 2 iphones, the monthly phone bill would be an extra $60/month which is just too much. TOO MUCH!)

And then… we have TROUBLE #5

My cell phone died. Now I need a new phone, our contract with Verizon is up, and oh, gee, look! The new (cheap(er)) iphone is out in 2 weeks!

I know it really isn’t smart, but I really want an iphone. If we can cut some other things out of our budget to make room for the additional $60/month the phone bill is going to run us..

Except that with the extra withholdings are going to kill our budget ANYWAY…

Yeah. This sucks.

Trouble. Right here in River City.

- 99k

So this is month 2 of having our amex blue cash, and I thought it would be interesting to track our cash back each month.

At our statement closing last month (May), we spent a total of $2,993. They don’t really tell you which transactions go toward the bonus categories (gas, groceries, drugstores) and which don’t, but they do have a “cash tracker” that shows your percentages in each category, bonus (1%) or regular (.5%). In May we had spent 23% in the 1% cash back bonus categories, and 77% on the .5% categories. This amounted in total cash back accrued in May at $18.38

June went roughly the same way, with our statement balance (statement closed yesterday) at $2,993 and year to date cash back earned at $38.48. It also shows that our percentage of spending went to 30% in the bonus categories and 70% for everything else. (I wish it would show you with each transaction!)

So we seem to be earning about $20 a month, and that is at the lower percentage cash back. We will start earning 5% on the bonus categories and 1% on everything else once we cross over $6500 in spending. I don’t know if it will switch over right when we hit the $6500 mark (which will be in about $600 more bucks, so not long) or if it will wait until after the statement closes.

Another thing I wonder is those bonus categories. The gas I’m not worried about, and neither for the drugstore, but the grocery store is a little baffling. First of all, we used to do all our grocery shopping at the Super Target near our home. There is a Safeway that is really close, but they tend to be a bit expensive. So big grocer trips = Target, stuff you need for dinner that night/picking up milk on the way home = Safeway. Well, in the transaction, Safeway has a little “GROCERY” in there in one of the fields. However, Target came up as “DISCOUNT STORE” which made me think.. Hmmm, probably not getting the bonus category there.

So this month, I tried to keep our grocery shopping at actual grocery stores. I hit Shopper’s Food Warehouse (which is good because their prices are even better than Target’s, but they’re kind of a ways away) and also Harris Teeter (not sure on these prices yet). Neither Shopper’s nor Harris Teeter had anything in their transactions to designate them as ‘grocery’.

Now my understanding is that text in the transaction is actually put there by the STORE, not by amex, so it could be that that has nothing to do with what category they fit in, but it makes me nervous all the same.

I probably shouldn’t worry because in May 23% of our spending was in bonus, and in June that went up to 30%. Could that only be because gas got so much more expensive? Or is it because the money that was going to Super Target went to stores now designated as ‘grocery’? Or maybe both?? I may give amex a call to make sure Harris Teeter and Shoppers are ‘grocery’, and see if the 5% kicks in when we tick over $6500, or at the next statement.

Also can’t wait to see what our new high yield checking account gives us back in interest - I’ll post that when I have it available.

-99k

Can you tell it’s June?

January started this blog off hot with timely posts and weekly updates on how things are going, how the budget is working, “it’s hard but we’ll get there”, la la la, tra la laaaaaa!

Well, it’s mid-year now and you can tell by the cobwebs scattered all over this place, don’t you think? It’s time to get more focused and I’m not just talking about blogging!

The budget this month isn’t going all that well. And I have to point at myself and say it’s all my fault. I have been buying things that aren’t in the budget. There! I said it! It is ALL MY FAULT.

Now, time for the excuses!! (New! Improved, Excuses!)

It’s hard sticking to a budget! Whine, whimper moan! We wanted/needed (ok, more on the wanted side) some new pool toys once summer hit hard, both kids needed new shoes for the summer. Did I need to buy 2 pairs of sandals for my daughter? No, no, probably not. However, I’m not going to feel guilty - You wouldn’t either if you’ve had to hunt all over the house for that ONE pair of sandals, wishing that there was another pair to use as a backup!

Of course, now I just hunt all over the house for both pairs instead of one. Ahem.

Another over budget item — my own personal fun money. I was futzing around with the new Quicken 2008 (another purchase that was not budgeted for) and neglected to keep close tabs on my own ‘fun money’ category and damn it all if i’m not over by like $40. It was that night out with girlfriends. Drinks, movie, popcorn, more drinks after — it really added up, and I didn’t even notice.

Other overspent categories:

Gifts: Should have allotted more for Father’s day and various birthday parties the kids get invited to.

Dining out: We’ve done more fast food than we should, add that to more spent at dinner for Father day.. doh.

Kid’s activities: This one just creeps up on you. I tend to lump all kid stuff in here, so the DVD of the kids at their closing program was in here, as well as the swimming lessons, as well as the sunscreen fee at the kid’s school… some things we can budget for (swimming lessons) but other things just crop up unexpectedly.

GAS: Uhh… HELLO! Gas prices are insane. I budgeted a LOT for gas this month, and technically we haven’t overspent this category yet, but I’m not sure we’re going to make it. I think in January, I budgeted $400 for gas. In May, we spent closer to $600. In June, we’re shooting towards $700, easy. YEOUCH. I want a hybrid.

Even with the overspending, we’re having a fantastic month debt-wise.

We’ve had a lot of reimbursements from our FSAs (and I earmark all FSA money to go toward debt).

I got paid for a freelance gig I had in april-may.

We received our tax stimulus check.

However, with the overspending, I’ve been kind of wary of just paying the minimums and letting the extra sit in our HY checking, earning interest, waiting for the day our 0% interest rates run out to pay everything. It’s too EASY to just fiddle our budget around, take some AWAY from the debt category and put some INTO the overspent categories to make it all nice and neat, to the detriment of our debt paydown!!

I had this uneasiness right from the beginning of June, probably because July was so crazy with the spending (even thought it was budgeted for). So, because of the butterflies in my stomach, and my DETERMINATION that we don’t steal from peter to pay paul … When money came in, I deposited it, and then promptly made a credit card payment for the same amount. If the money is GONE, you can’t borrow from it, right?

I think I am feeling a little less uneasy now. The thought of the stimulus check sitting in our checking earning interest doesn’t give me butterflies anymore, so I will probably let it sit there instead of rushing it off to the debt paydown plan. However, I reserve the right to rush it off to the nearest credit card debt if the butterflies start to form again.

So, even though I didn’t let some of the debt money sit around earning interest, we have a good bit of our income sitting there, as we now use our amex blue cash card for everything. Last month we earned about $15 in interest, and we didn’t fund the account until mid month, so we should at least break $20 at the end of June.

Well, that’s a long update - long in words, and long overdue. Time to get the motivation back and keep at it! Blogging, budgeting, EVERYTHING!

As always… please comment! It makes me feel like I’m not talking to an empty room. *Tap tap tap* Hello? Anyone out there?

-99k

I am happy to report some progress in May! Not spectacular progress, but normal progress! Seeing how we had our setbacks in April, I’m happy with just normal progress!

JUST THE CREDIT CARDS PLEASE!

At the begining of May, we had $26,635 in credit card debt.

In May:

we paid $1,035 paid on our credit cards
we paid $0 in interest (HOO-YA!)
for $25,600 credit card debt remaining.

THE ENTIRE PICTURE

We lowered our debt by $2,378 for a total of $89.7K.

We are OUT of the $90,000’s range people! WAHOO!

Next month is going to be a good one, as we have our tax stimulus check and I am getting paid for a side job, all of which is earmarked to go toward debt.

Well how-do!

It’s been a busy month at the 99k household. Very very busy. We’ve had soccer, we’ve had t-ball, we’ve had birthday parties, we’ve had grandparents visiting from across the country… it’s been crazy. I apologize for the lack of posting!

So this month we have a few changes going on in our financial life.

First off, we applied for the American Express Blue Cash card, it has arrived and we’ve switched from using our debit cards to using that one, wherever it’s accepted. So far we’ve charged close to $3,000 for the month! I get a little nervous about it, until I remind myself that there’s well over $3,000 sitting in our checking. However, if I was getting too relaxed about entering transactions into our budgeting software (You Need A Budget) then getting that card nipped that right in the bud! I enter everything every few days just to make sure everything is accounted for in our budget, just as if it was money spent right out of our checking account.

I actually get kind of disappointed whenever there’s a place that DOESN’T use amex now! One of which is our kids’ school! That’s $1400 bucks a month right there that is not earning us cash back! Oh well, at least the kids’ school even takes credit (that’s pretty rare). Anyplace that doesn’t take amex, we use our usaa mastercard for, which earns us 2% back.

And we have also made another change - we opened a high yield checking account with Charter Bank in Albuqurque, NM.

Mr. 99k and I had been pondering a high yield checking account ever since RL commented about the Charles Schwab HY checking account, and then a week later I read this article on Bankrate on high yield checking accounts. Charter bank was mentioned in the article which lead me to investigate. I also found this forum thread on fat wallet about Charter.

Their Turbo Checking earns 6% interest, as long as you meet a few requirements:

• Make at least 10 debit card transactions monthly (excluding ATM transactions)
• Receive one direct deposit or ACH auto debit monthly
• Receive your monthly statement electronically (e-statement)
• Access on-line banking at least once a month

Taking this list from the bottom up:

Access on-line banking at least once a month - I am super anal about our finances, so this is a piece of cake. I estimate that I will probably be accessing our account online approximately 427 times a month.

Receive e-statement - done. Easy to set up, and once it’s done, it’s done.

Receive one direct deposit or ACH auto debit monthly - I have set up the Charter checking account as an external account in our usaa online banking and have already moved funds into the account, and I believe any deposits made in this way will meet this requirement.

Make at least 10 debit card transactions monthly - This is probably going to be the hardest one, as we are using our new amex for everything now. I will probably have to keep my eye on this throughout the month to make sure it’s met each month. I may pay $5 ten times on one of our bills using the debit card at the beginning of each month, just so I know it’s over and done with. We’ll see how it goes.

So, while I am very excited to be getting a great rate, here’s the other thoughts on Charter and this change:

• It took a good month to get set up. Their system is not very streamlined for getting the account set up. Both my husband and I had to submit applications, for some reason mine was not verified properly and I had to then send in a notorized copy of my driver’s license. All this took about a week. After they received my driver’s license, they sent out papers for us to sign, which we did, and sent them back. (We also opted not to receive checks (which had a fee) in that paperwork.) A week and a half after those were mailed back, we finally received online access to our account. That was last week sometime, and we still haven’t received our debit cards. The turn around time, in my opinion was way too long.
• The online checking is pretty sad. There are no bells or whistles going on here. No place to set up external accounts to move funds to and from the account. This isn’t a huge detriment as I can do it from the usaa side, or even the e*trade side, if it comes to that. When I entered in a few bill payees, it searches to see whether they can pay that payee electronically or not. The search was a little klunky, and it would have been nice if you hadn’t had to enter the address until *after* it searched. With usaa, I several of our bills have e-bill, which means the bill amount actually shows up along with the due date right there on my bill pay page. The charter online bill pay just does not seem very intuitive from a design point of view, and just isn’t very well integrated. Again, I think we will probably continue to use our usaa bill pay for the few bills we can’t automate. And finally, I’m glad I made a note of our account number and routing number because it doesn’t show up anywhere. Most banks at least have their routing number somewhere on their site if you do a search, but charter doesn’t seem to - and they don’t really even have any instructions for making deposits. Not really any skin off my nose, but like I said - no bells and whistles going on here! There’s little to draw me to this account apart from their 6% rate.
• No direct downloading with Quicken. In fact, no web connect either. Nor any sort of import capability. The download option they have is a .OFX file, which Quicken (the blood sucking money grabbers) decided to outdate as a way to force people to upgrade to newer versions.
• And finally, I’m a little perplexed on how to go forward from here. Should I just move some of our cash over to charter and keep some at usaa? Should I have our mortgage pull from usaa? or charter? what about our other bills? should I consider charter our ‘debt savings’ account only? should we put our emergency fund there as well, as it’s earning a much better rate than e*trade? I know for sure we aren’t going to bother changing our paychecks from usaa to charter. I can push money over just fine, so why mess with it. And now that I think about it, with the quicken thing, it’s probably better to keep that account as simple and uncomplicated as possible.. We’ll have to factor that in.

So, we need to sit down and work out how bills and things are going to work, and I don’t think we’re going to ditch our usaa checking entirely, but being the financially anal person that I am, I feel all squirmy not having a plan right now.

that’s all for now,
-99k

JUST THE CREDIT CARDS, PLEASE

At the beginning of march, we had $30,428 in credit card debt.

In April:

we paid a sad, pitiful, lonely $228 on our credit card debt,
$0 was charged in finance charges
for a total of $228 debt paydown.

Our new credit card debt total is $26,635.

(Sad mopey face.)

THE ENTIRE PICTURE

We lowered our debt by $1,038 for a total of $91.7K.

It wasn’t a fun month. Shall we go into it? I usually like to keep the “monthly totals” posts to just the numbers, but sure, let’s get into it.

We aim to put $1400 towards credit card debt each month. However, in April, we had some issues with the heat pump unit for the upper level of our home. We looked into getting it repaired, even had them repair it, to find that the replacement compressor was bad, put in ANOTHER new compressor, to find that the reversing valve was bad. Our HVAC company graciously offered to suck up what charges they had incurred at that point (labor to install and RE-install the compressors, refridgerant) and suggested we replace the entire unit.

We did. It cost $2500.

So April went kind of like this:
Pay minimums on the cards (and since we had just transferred balances, this wasn’t a lot).
Put what would have gone toward credit card debt toward a new heat pump.
Take the remaining needed for the heat pump from our emergency fund.

It also means that May will be spent replacing our emergency funds until it is back up to $2000 before we get back on the get-out-of-debt train.

On the bright side - I’m totally excited to see what our power bill is going to be at the end of this month! Sure, it’ll be apples to oranges, since it’s heating costs vs. cooling costs, but still! I can’t wait!

Luckily for us, May is a month where my husband gets paid 3 times instead of just two (he is paid every 2 weeks), so we should be able to build the emergency fund back up AND put some money toward debt, not to mention a couple of events going on (a birthday, family visiting, anniversary, memorial day) that need to be budgeted for.

We also have a couple of changes in how we do our finances, which I’ll detail a bit more later, but the short version is we’re switching to a high yield checking account, we’ve opened an american express blue cash to start getting better credit card rewards, and we’re going to pile up money to earn interest while paying only the minimums on our 0% cards. I’ve tweaked and tworqued my spreadsheet to include our “debt savings” so that we will be sure to stay on track and keep that money safe. We’ve already received our new amex cards and have started using them, but we’re still waiting for our new checking account to process, so more on all that later!

-99k

I feel like I’ve been through the wringer, people.

So we had our new HVAC company come out to replace the compressor last Friday. After it was in, they could not get the unit to start up. They returned yesterday, tinkered around with it some more and discovered that the new compressor was bad from the factory. They went and got new compressor #2 and installed that, finally got it running, and discovered that the reversing valve is bad. The reversing valve is the thingee that makes it cool instead of heat and vice versa.

When they called me this morning, they apologized (for what? for us having a piece of crap heatpump?) and said that they would NOT charge us for any work done thus far. They offered us a new Carrier heatpump with some compatibility widgets that will make it work with our indoor air blower.

So we’re going to go with that. It will cost us $2500. This whole back and forth of will we? won’t we? (have to replace everything) has left me very irritable and crabby.

Yay.

Mr. 99k is lucky that nothing came flying at his head in the midst of my crabbiness, like say, a shoe, or perhaps the cat.

It could be worse.

We could have been out for the compressor replacement labor and cost of freeon AND $2500. Still, I’m not going to breathe easy until the darn thing is actually INSTALLED AND WORKING.

Working for a week straight.

Ah well.

Our kids have both started with their chosen spring sport, T-ball, and soccer. This means that once, sometimes twice a week we’re picking up kids from school, eating on the go, and dashing off to a practice/game. Every Saturday has a game for each kid.

After a long lazy winter of hunkering down inside where it’s nice and warm, it’s nice to get out in some nice weather, but at the same time it feels very hectic and madcap, always on the go! Last weekend I didn’t even plan out an official menu for this current week’s dinners, as with 2 evenings taken up with sports and another night where my husband had a class and therefore wouldn’t be home, there was really only 2 weeknights to plan for.

Our kids get up about 7am and we’re usually out the door at around 8ish to drop them at school (we take turns dropping off and picking up). Pick up from school/daycare is usually around 5-5:30. It’s about 15min from their school to our home, and soccer practice starts at 6:30, and weekday t-ball games start at 6. Not a lot of time in there to get from school to home to eat to get on shinguards/cleats/etc back out and to the field. And then after the practice/game, there’s not a lot of time to play, as bedtime is 8pm. We usually start their bedtime at about 7:15 and we aim for kids to be bathed, jammied up, read to and tucked in/lights off by 8pm. You can see how this doesn’t leave a whole lot of time for … well, anything!

As a result, we’ve been eating way too much fast food and the kids have been getting to bed a bit later on some days. The crunched down schedule has been taking it’s toll, not the least of which is in the form of a parent trying to hurry up a kid and being crabby about it. It’s not all bad though, last night was a class night for Mr. 99k, so I was on kid duty by myself for the evening. I left work late and thus picked the kids up late, which means there’s even less time for a real sit down dinner (even if it’s usually just chicken nuggets and tater tots, which I usually let them have on a class night). So instead of trying to hurry home and fix dinner and having no play time for the kids, I stopped at McDonalds and tried to get them to hold still long enough to get some nuggets into their tummies, then cried out, “RELEASE THE HOUNDS!” (ala the simpsons) and let them run rampant on the play equipment for a half hour. They are even learning the concepts of time budgeting, as I had to explain to them, “If we spend our time playing in the play area, that means there’s not much time to play when we get home.”

It’s definitely hard to spend quality time with your kids when there’s not enough time in the evenings to get everything in. We’ve been toying with the idea of a slightly later bedtime for the kids which *would* give us some more time. I think our older one (soon to be 6) would be fine with that, but the 4 year old could probably still use the full 11 hours of sleep. Neither one naps anymore (alas!) and when we come into their room at 7am, they’re both still usually asleep (Ms. 4 year old) or just waking up (Mr. 6yo) - a good sign that it’s not TOO much sleep.

We are going to try to do better about the fast food for the rest of the month, and have solemnly sworn that any more eating out would come out of our personal blow money categories rather than keep overspending the family eating out category.

It’s interesting to look at how time constraints and time budgeting can actually affect the fiscal budget.